I don't give away my fucks
I really love this blog post by Mark Manson and I want you to read it too ~ CLICK HERE
The language is pretty intense but let's just be honest... fuck is an important word in my vocabulary.
Anyway... the post talks about what not giving a fuck actually means and the art of not giving a fuck.
Not giving a fuck is often mistaken for completely not caring or being indifferent... but that's not the case!! It's actually ACTUALLY caring and being comfortable with being different. It's alloying your fucks to what's most important to give a fuck for. "In life, our fucks must be spent on something. There really is no such thing as not giving a fuck. The question is simply how we each choose to allot our fucks. You only get a limited number of fucks to give over your lifetime, so you must spend them with care."
Choosing how and where we give our fucks; that's the art!!
Being more selective about the fucks you give...
"Most of us, most of the time, get sucked in by life’s mean trivialities, steamrolled by its unimportant dramas; we live and die by the sidenotes and distractions and vicissitudes that suck the fucks out of us..."
It's very liberating, letting go of those unnecessary fucks. Being able to say fuck it to unimportant things and then truly giving a fuck to the things that ARE important.
Oh, you don't like me... I don't care. I'm indifferent. I'm not going to waste a fuck on caring what you think about me. Mess with my mom, dog, or friends, I give a fuck and hell hath no fury like my fucks.
Get your fucks together people. and read this blog post!